Ester's Plea

Ester’s Plea was written by a Gentleman whose
wife had Alzheimer’s. His name is unknown.

Do not ask me to remember
Don’t try to make me understand,
Let me rest and know you’re with me,
Kiss my cheek and hold my hand.
I’m confused beyond your concept,
I am sick and sad and lost,
All I know is that I need you,
To be with me at all cost.
Do not loose your patience with me.
Do not scold or curse or cry.
I can’t help the way I’m acting,
Can’t be different, though I try.
Just remember that I need you,
Though the best of me is gone.
Please don’t fail to stand beside me,
Love me till my life is done.

 My mother had advanced dementia. I carry this poem in my billfold. Ester’s Plea is a roadmap for all of our relationships. Be patient,  kind, understanding, nonjudgmental and show your Love by being  there for one another.
Bert Bojesen